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'''{{FULLPAGENAME}}''' are formerly [[intact]] men who, as an adolescent or adult, voluntarily elected to submit to  [[Adolescent and adult circumcision| adult circumcision]].
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'''{{FULLPAGENAME}}''' are formerly [[intact]] men who, as an adult, voluntarily elected to submit to  [[Adolescent and adult circumcision| adult circumcision]].
 
  
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Regret men usually had thoughtful and loving parents who actively protected the and legal and [[human rights]] of their son to [[physical integrity]] and the enjoyment of a whole and complete [[intact]] [[penis]] with a functional [[foreskin]].
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Regret men usually had thoughtful and loving parents who actively protected the legal and [[human rights]] of their son to [[physical integrity]] and the enjoyment of a whole and complete [[intact]] [[penis]] with a functional [[foreskin]]. Such parents properly reserve the decision regarding [[circumcision]] for the boy to make for himself.
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==Reasons for circumcision==
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Most [[intact]] males are very content with their status, however a few are not and choose the [[Adolescent_and_adult_circumcision| circumcision]] option.
  
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Regret men may have been reared in a society where most men are [[circumcised]] and they chose to follow the perceived norm.  
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1. Regret men may have been reared in a society where most men are [[circumcised]] and they chose to follow the perceived norm.  
  
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Other regret men may have been persuaded by an ignorant and selfish girl friend to get [[circumcised]].
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2. Other regret men may have been persuaded by an ignorant and selfish girlfriend or ex-girlfriend to get [[Adolescent and adult circumcision| circumcised]].
  
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Others may have consulted a rapacious urologist for a minor medical condition who recommended the most expensive procedure (circumcision), instead of conservative treatment.
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3. Others may have consulted a rapacious urologist for a minor medical condition who recommended the most expensive procedure ([[Adolescent and adult circumcision| circumcision]]), instead of conservative [[foreskin]]-conserving treatment.<ref name="masood2005">{{REFjournal
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|title=Penile sensitivity and sexual satisfaction after circumcision: are we informing men correctly?
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|journal=Urol Int
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|date=2005
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|volume=75
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|DOI=10.1159/000085930
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== Reasons for regret ==
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After their [[adult circumcision]], regret men commonly complain of the discomfort of an exposed [[glans penis]], dryness, and of extreme loss of [[Foreskin sensitivity| sexual sensation]] after the excision of the nerve-laden, protective [[foreskin]], which has been known to be erogenous tissue for decades,<ref name="winklemann1959">{{WinkelmannRK 1959}}</ref> and come to regret their decision to be [[circumcised]].
  
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==Options for treatment of lost foreskin==
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The options for treatment are few. [[Surgical foreskin restoration]] has been tried but is no longer recommended. Men, seeking to undo the unfortunate results of their circumcision, may opt for non-surgical [[foreskin restoration]], which uses [[tissue expansion]] to elongate the residual shaft skin to form a new foreskin. It is claimed that it restores about 80 percent of the lost sensation.
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Watson & Golden (2017) recommend that [[circumcised]] men "embrace the anguish and try to feel it as strongly as they can." They also recommend non-surgical [[foreskin restoration]] "since it empowers the patient."<ref name="watson2017">{{REFjournal
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|title=Male circumcision grief: effective and ineffective therapeutic approaches
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|journal=New Male Studies: An International Journal
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|date=2017
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|volume=6
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|issue=2
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|pages=109-25
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|url=http://newmalestudies.com/OJS/index.php/nms/article/view/261/317
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Other regret men are awaiting the hoped for success of [[Foregen]] to regenerate a missing [[foreskin]] as a salamander regenerates its lost tail, however this is not yet a proven procedure.
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==Other classes of regret men==
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Other classes of regret men include the [[regret dad]], the male [[regret doctor]] who regrets the circumcisions he formerly performed, and [[cut (circumcised)  dads with intact sons]].
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==Video==
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====Circumcised at 46====
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<youtube>v=pZ3n8CtcmRY</youtube>
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====Why I Regret Getting Circumcised At 19====
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<youtube>v=7AaUb63NLLw</youtube>
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{{SEEALSO}}
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* [[Adolescent_and_adult_circumcision]]
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* [[Circumcised men who complain]]
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* [[Foreskin restoration]]
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* [[Issues with American urologists and the practice of male circumcision]]
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* {{REFweb
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|publisher=Intact Australia
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|date=2017-03-01
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|accessdate=2023-12-12
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}}
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Latest revision as of 23:21, 10 November 2024

Regret men are formerly intact men who, as an adolescent or adult, voluntarily elected to submit to adult circumcision.

Regret men usually had thoughtful and loving parents who actively protected the legal and human rights of their son to physical integrity and the enjoyment of a whole and complete intact penis with a functional foreskin. Such parents properly reserve the decision regarding circumcision for the boy to make for himself.

Reasons for circumcision

Most intact males are very content with their status, however a few are not and choose the circumcision option.

1. Regret men may have been reared in a society where most men are circumcised and they chose to follow the perceived norm.

2. Other regret men may have been persuaded by an ignorant and selfish girlfriend or ex-girlfriend to get circumcised.

3. Others may have consulted a rapacious urologist for a minor medical condition who recommended the most expensive procedure ( circumcision), instead of conservative foreskin-conserving treatment.[1]

Reasons for regret

After their adult circumcision, regret men commonly complain of the discomfort of an exposed glans penis, dryness, and of extreme loss of sexual sensation after the excision of the nerve-laden, protective foreskin, which has been known to be erogenous tissue for decades,[2] and come to regret their decision to be circumcised.

Options for treatment of lost foreskin

The options for treatment are few. Surgical foreskin restoration has been tried but is no longer recommended. Men, seeking to undo the unfortunate results of their circumcision, may opt for non-surgical foreskin restoration, which uses tissue expansion to elongate the residual shaft skin to form a new foreskin. It is claimed that it restores about 80 percent of the lost sensation.

Watson & Golden (2017) recommend that circumcised men "embrace the anguish and try to feel it as strongly as they can." They also recommend non-surgical foreskin restoration "since it empowers the patient."[3]

Other regret men are awaiting the hoped for success of Foregen to regenerate a missing foreskin as a salamander regenerates its lost tail, however this is not yet a proven procedure.

Other classes of regret men

Other classes of regret men include the regret dad, the male regret doctor who regrets the circumcisions he formerly performed, and cut (circumcised) dads with intact sons.

Video

Circumcised at 46

Why I Regret Getting Circumcised At 19

See also

External links

References

  1. ↑ REFjournal Masood S, Patel HRH, Himpson RC, et al. Penile sensitivity and sexual satisfaction after circumcision: are we informing men correctly?. Urol Int. 2005; 75(1): 62-6. PMID. DOI. Retrieved 8 November 2022.
  2. ↑ REFjournal Winkelmann RK. The erogenous zones: their nerve supply and significance. Mayo Clin Proc. 21 January 1959; 34(3): 39-47. PMID. Retrieved 4 June 2021.
  3. ↑ REFjournal Watson LR, Golden T. Male circumcision grief: effective and ineffective therapeutic approaches. New Male Studies: An International Journal. 2017; 6(2): 109-25. Retrieved 11 June 2024.
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